Shobande Matthew Damilola celebrated his birthday and guess where he chose to do that…
At the Stephen’s Children Home in Abeokuta.
It was and it still remains a privilege to be called upon to deliver the theme lecture at the official launching of his social service setup – MATTYDAMMY FOUNDATION.
Talking to the lads and lasses – mostly Internally Displaced People, aftermath of the Boko Haram insurgencies in the North East and orphans – on the need to RISE, because it is in their hands to do so is an opportunity so great to inspire these young ones who may have lost all drive there is.
Below is the theme lecture in full as delievered by Azeez Okeyale on the occasion of Shobande Matthew’s birthday and the launch of his foundation on the 3rd day of June, 2016 at the Stephen’s Children Home in Abeokuta.

Good afternoon distinguished ladies and gentlemen.
I love to call you distinguished because I belong to a school of thought that believe strongly that we all – regardless of our religion, ethnicity, social status, state of health or financial background – have a unique ability deposited in us by the Most High to stand us out from the crowd.
So, today I congratulate you for being here and more so I like to appreciate the chief facilitator of this social service setup – Future Goal Foundation, Mr. Matthew Shobande for heeding the call to create a better world. I also say a very big well done to the Organizing Committee for putting together this platform. I very much value this opportunity to deliver the keynote address at this gathering. I can only hope and pray for more of God’s amazing grace on you all.
Today is not the day for us to sulk about what we have done wrong in the past or analyze what could have been. Rather, we have come here today to dialogue on how the doer of deeds – you and I – can do better, while making use of our very much limited available resources to benefit ourselves and the society at large.
To start with, I want to tell you a story of a young lady.
Eight years ago, this lady was playing street football at the school field of the Bishop Aggey Memorial Grammar School in Mushin, Lagos. If you are conversant with the news and the map of Lagos, you would know that Mushin can be attributed with tenacity, youthful vigour, strength, energy but most usually directed to the wrong places, rioting, hooliganism and every negative qualification available.
A year later in 2009, she was playing local football somewhere in the Nigeria with amateur side FC ROBO. In 2013, she joined Rivers Angels of the Nigeria Female Professional League.

In 2014, this lady starred for Nigeria at the under-20 Women’s World Cup in Canada winning the Most Valuable Player award for performances related to the tournament.
That same year, she won the CAF African Women’s Footballer of the Year award.
A year later in 2015, she led the line as the Senior Women national team of Nigeria filed out at the Senior World Cup in Canada, stealing the show with glimpses of her ability on and off the ball.
In 2015, her tenacity, doggedness and diligence paid off as she attracted international interest and she signed for the Liverpool FC ladies becoming the first full-blooded female African to play in the feminine version of the English Premier League called the FA Women Super League.

Her exploits at home and abroad confirmed her as the inaugural winner of BBC Women’s World Footballer of the year award sometimes in March, 2015.
After a series of electric performances, another legendary team in Arsenal ladies FC snapped her off the books of Liverpool Ladies and today she does business with Arsenal ladies FC as their first choice striker.

She is Asisat Oshoala. She went from the doldrums and ghetto of Mushin to North London.

You can do that too. Conceive and achieve. From Abeokuta to the rest of the world.
It’s in your hands to conceive. It’s in your hands to achieve. It’s in your hands to deliver the solutions that the world so much crave. It’s in your hand to provide a better future for yourself and generation unborn. It is in your hands, so RISE.
Many things I admire about Mr Matthew, what I admire most however is his reasoning ability.
Consider this analogy from one of his works, he posited that when we look at an egg, we see three major components: The skull, The albumen and The yolk.
The shell represents your environment, the albumen is you and the yolk represents the potentials you are born with to achieve the purpose for your life. The shell provides a good atmosphere for the albumen to develop into an embryo and then, a new life. The yolk serves as food for the embryo throughout the developmental stage. Now, just as the yolk is in the albumen, the same way your potential is in your hands and your life is in your hands too, so rise!
We have seen the example of Asisat and there are several other people like that too, she never allowed her environment or potentials to be hinder her from achieving her set goals.
Every man is born with a purpose to achieve in life. You are born to solve a problem, fill a vacuum and write a new story. Everyone is a world changer and everything you need to achieve these are within you. For you are born with gifts, potentials, and talents, skills and innovative ideas which are enough to fulfil your purpose and make the world a better place.
Open your hands and look closely into your palms. In your palms are written some coded information, the map to reach the better future, that is, the key to achieve your purpose. Unlike a roadmap, the lines in your hands are ACTION MAP/PLAN which means all you need to get to top is there written in your hands. A man who sits without finding a thing to do, is like a traveler who sets out on a journey without his travelling map. Stand up and get to work.

Nothing will be possible if you fail to ‘RISE’ and ‘ACT’. Therefore, it is necessary that you rise up to DREAM and WORK towards a BETTER FUTURE, because, you have everything you need. A Yoruba proverb says; “atelewo eni kii tani-ije”, which means your hands will never deceive you. Therefore, whatever you do with your hands diligently will surely yield a good result.
If the albumen (embryo) fails to make use of the yolk; it will fail to develop and die. In the same vein, if you fail to make good use of skills, potentials, talents and everything in your hands, you will not grow; and a life that fails to grow will die, that is, failure to achieve its purpose in life.
God is not a magician. Forget the spiritual motivations of confessions and professions. Since Adam, there remains a void between conceptualisation and actualisation that mere confessions have failed to fill. Something is only ever achieved because someone chose to rise and act.
So, what does it mean to RISE?

R means Realize
What does it mean to realize? It is the conscious evaluation of where you are at the moment. If indeed we really want to make progress, it’s high time we became sincere with ourselves asking questions like:
- Where do I see myself in the next ten years?
- How far am I from where I want to be?
- What will I do to get to that position?
- What are my strengths and weaknesses?
- What opportunities and/or threats abound?
You should at this point know what your strengths are, what you can do, what you do exceptionally well and what you enjoy doing.
You should likewise know what your weaknesses are, what you cannot do well, what you do too much/to a fault, what impedes your free flow, what gets on your nerve etc.
What to do?
Develop your strength always. Assume you write, you only become a better writer by writing frequently and assessing them. Assume you sing, whenever the inspirations come, endeavour to get a note to pen those lyrics and when possible, do some audio recording.
Improve your weaknesses. If your bane is studying, you read a bit and you are tired. Start small, probably with 30 minutes at a stretch, then to 45 minutes and on and on. You will discover in no time that your strengths will take you up there, that is open opportunities for you and improving upon your weaknesses will keep you up there.
I stands for Initiate
Leave that comfort zone. Pick up that no-pay job. That opportunity to learn a skill. Apply for scholarships. Let people know your strength. Convince people of your ability and let them bring challenges to you. One thing about telling people of your ability is that it brings about efficiency as such tasks are knit with deadlines as such you become more proficient at what you do.
S stands for Sever
To sever is to separate. To remove. There are certain decisions you need to take. Friends you need to unfriend. Ideas you need to unlearn, attitudes you need to change if indeed you want to unlock your full potential and rise to the highest.
E represents Endure
It’s not to scare you. Even the Bible says all that will live godly shall suffer persecution. A Yoruba adage corroborates that by saying, ikoko to ma je ata, idi a gbona. Although, it’s not always, but most of the time. You need to be tenacious, develop your strength of character. Know it adversities, oppositions will come, at first people might not believe in what you stand for, in your dreams but know it that if you endure just a little more, flourish is about the next bend.
Everybody dreams, even the lazy man does. But the difference between the super achievers and the under achievers is in their perspectives in following their dreams. One waits for the dream to unfold or unravel, the other sets out to unravel and demystify the dream. My dear brothers and sisters, dare to dream because it’s in your hands… and after dreaming all you can, remember to please RISE!